Around last year, I came across a non-popular version of comparison in the book Big Feelings.
Previously, I had always viewed comparison as something to be avoided at all costs. But this book had me rethinking whether that was entirely helpful.
In Liz and Mollie's own words:
“Comparison can teach you what you value: you’re more likely to feel intense admiration when you see someone doing something that you want for yourself—even if you haven’t consciously allowed yourself to want it.”
The more I think about it, the more convinced I am that this is a better interpretation than the popular one.
Whenever I read about someone running a thriving small business — online or offline — I admire that person because I want to be there one day. That's the kind of lifestyle I value immensely.
Now, I know there are dark sides to comparing your life with others because it can send you down a spiral of shallow keeping up with the Joneses habit.
You know, that urgent desire to buy a new car, new clothes, etc., immediately after seeing a post from a friend or a popular figure on Instagram.
But wielded to our advantage, comparison can help us distinguish the signal from the noise and shape our future goals.
Think about it.
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